To Such Belongs the Kingdom
Jesus loved children. As a child himself, he was raised by Joseph and Mary in their home at Nazareth (cf. Mt 2:23). Growing up among relative and townspeople, Jesus experienced the concerns and problems common to all children, such as sickness and death among family members. Within this setting, Jesus “grew and became strong, filled with wisdom; and the favor of God was upon him” (Lk 2:40).
Jesus’ affection for children is clearly affirmed in the Gospels. When his disciples attempted to halt people from bringing children to Jesus for his blessing, he insisted: “let the little children come to me, and do not stop them; for it is to such as these that the kingdom of heaven belongs” (Mt 19:14).
Jesus also demonstrated his solicitude for children by healing them and raising them from death. He restored life to Jairus’ daughter (cf. Mk 5:21-43; Mt 9:18-25; Lk 8:41-56) and the son of the widow of Nain (cf. Lk 7:11-17). He healed an epileptic boy and the demon-possessed daughter of a Greek woman (cf. Mt 15:21-28, 17:14-18; Mk 7:24-30; Lk 9:37-43).
His fundamental concern was always for the spiritual development of children. The greatest gift which God the Father can give to anyone, including children, is faith in his only begotten Son. Jesus declared that the Father reveals his Son to children more readily than to the learned and clever (cf. Lk 10:21; Mt 11:25).
Recalling these examples of Jesus’ attention to children sets the proper context for helping children examine the conscience and preparing them for the Sacrament of Reconciliation. This sacrament allows Jesus to express his love for children today. Through it, he continues to influence their lives; he demonstrates his power to heal them, to free them from the bondage of sin, and raise them to new life. In turn, this sacrament allows children to come to know and love Jesus. For these reasons, Jesus still exhorts us: “Let the children come!”
An Examination of Conscience for Children
Responsibilities to God:
Have I prayed every day?
Have I prayed my morning prayers and night prayers?
Have I prayed with my parents and family?
Have I been moody and rebellious about praying and going to church on Sunday?
Have I asked the Holy Spirit to help me whenever I have been tempted to sin?
Have I asked the Holy Spirit to help me do what is right?
Responsibilities to others:
Have I been obedient and respectful to my parents?
Have I lied or been deceitful to them or to others?
Have I been arrogant, stubborn or rebellious?
Have I talked back to parents, teachers or other adults?
Have I pouted and been moody?
Have I been selfish toward my parents, brothers, and sisters,
teachers, or my friends and schoolmates?
Have I gotten angry at them? Have I hit anyone?
Have I held grudges or not forgiven others?
Responsibilities to others:
Have I treated other children with respect or have I made fun of them and called them names?
Have I used bad language?
Have I stolen anything? Have I returned it?
Have I performed my responsibilities, such as homework and household chores?
Have I been helpful and affectionate toward my family?
Have I been kind and generous with my friends?
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The priest greets the penitent (you).
Begin with the Sign of the Cross and saying: “Forgive me Father, for I have sinned, this is my First Confession and these are my sins….”
Tell your sins to the priest…
What the sin is and how many times you committed the sin.
After the penitent (you) have finished saying your sins say: “I am truly sorry for these sins and the sins of my past life.” (The priest will know you have completed your confession).
Penance: The priest may offer some guidance. The priest will give the penitent (you) a penance (a prayer to say or do to show God you are truly sorry) which is to be said or done following confession (Reconciliation).
After receiving your penance, say the Act of Contrition:
O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended thee, and I detest all my sins because of thy just punishments but most of all because I offend thee my God, who are all good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve with the help of thy grace, to sin no more and to avoid the near occasion of sins. Amen.
Absolution: The priest will extend his hand over the penitent’s (you) head while giving the Church’s absolution and dismiss you with a blessing.
Note: Please follow the catechist’s directions to where to sit and say your penance. The penance should be said quietly. After you are finished, you will be dismissed from the Sacrament of Reconciliation.
Pray as if everything depends on God and act as if everything depends on you.”